Ensure action plugins accept only valid args (#44779)

* Ensure action plugins accept only valid args

This fixes #25424
This also fixes #44773

* Add missing parameters, use private _VALID_ARGS

test/integration/targets/win_reboot/tasks/main.yml

@@ -76,3 +76,15 @@
     win_user:
       name: '{{standard_user}}'
       state: absent
+
+- name: Use invalid parameter
+  reboot:
+    foo: bar
+  ignore_errors: yes
+  register: invalid_parameter
+
+- name: Ensure task fails with error
+  assert:
+    that:
+    - invalid_parameter is failed
+    - "invalid_parameter.msg == 'Invalid options for reboot: foo'"