pushed module_loader to task_queue_manager so all cli's can benefit from it

also normalized -M option across all cli
fixes #12016

lib/ansible/cli/playbook.py

@@ -48,6 +48,7 @@ class PlaybookCLI(CLI):
             runtask_opts=True,
             vault_opts=True,
             fork_opts=True,
+            module_opts=True,
         )
 
         # ansible playbook specific opts